Our study of Proverbs 31 today brings us to:
צ 27 She watches how things go in her house,
The first part of this verse wraps up what has been said in the verses before. It is saying not to neglect your home.
I haven't always been a good housekeeper. As a matter of fact, my house was a mess until I learned to be a Proverbs 31 woman. Years ago when I started to apply this scripture, I cross-stitched this verse as a reminder to put it into practice:
It hangs over my stove now, and has hung on the wall of my kitchen in every home since the 1970's. Each time I see it I'm reminded of my priorities.
Because it is from the Holy Scriptures, it reminds me that this is what ADONAI wants me to do as a home-keeper.
The sign reminds me to keep my home clean and neat, and to take care of what G-d has given me. I don't want to become so busy with outside pursuits that I neglect my home duties of cleaning, laundry, and preparing healthy meals.
I'm also reminded to make our home a place of peace above everything else. I want to keep a sweet spirit there at all times, and to keep a welcoming atmosphere prepared for anyone who visits. If things become cluttered, I feel stressed, so I like to keep things picked up and clean. By doing this, I'm not afraid of drop-in visitors, and can open my door without worry.
When my children were growing up, I also had two other sayings framed on my wall that kept me focused on my priorities. The first is:
My house is clean enough to be healthy
And dirty enough to be happy
I don't want to be so focused on cleaning that I become obsessed with it. There is a balance, and I have found it, through trial and error.
The second saying is:
Cleaning and dusting can wait till tomorrow
Cause children grow up,
we learn to our sorrow
While cleaning is important, my family members come before that. If something comes up that involves one of them, the cleaning can wait.
I believe a woman's home is a reflection of her heart. When I walk into someone's home, I can tell a great deal by the atmosphere there, including the decorations as well as her demeanor. I should qualify this with the statement that children's toys in the living room are not considered clutter and messiness in my book. And, of course, we all have times that things aren't as clean and nice as we'd like. Something is wrong, though, if your life is like that all the time....if you live in a mess day in and day out, or if you can't invite people in because you'd be embarassed because your house looks like a dump all the time.
Proverbs 31 can move you out of a stressful life of mess. Ask him to help you apply this passage to your life. It worked for me, and I know it will work for you.
You don't have the finest furniture or most expensive decorations to have a pretty and welcoming home. I think almost everything in my home has been bought at a yard sale or a thrift shop, but it is pretty to me and I think it reflects a heart that loves Hashem and people.
There is a second part of this verse (about idleness), and we will talk about that next week.
I saw a funny thing on Facebook today:
I love looking at snow
Most of the country is dealing with cold, snowy weather. Even north Florida is expecting snow today. So, stay warm and safe, and don't hate me because I live in sunny central Florida. :)
I'm sharing this post with:
Let's Get Social Sunday
Modest Mom Monday Link-upA Wise Woman Builds
Whole Hearted Wednesday
Hearts for Home
I memorized years ago one of the poems you listed in this post. I thought you might like to know the whole verse.ReplyDelete
Cleaning and dusting can wait til tomorrow,
Cause babies grow up, we've learned to our sorrow.
So quiet down cobwebs; dust go to sleep.
I'm rocking my baby and babies don't keep.
I so love this poem! My "babies" are 23 and 28 now, but I do have a grandbaby who is 2 months old! I'm so happy to know that snuggling is more important than cleaning! Thanks for the memories! :)
I am so glad you shared that with me, Jean. I love that poem and didn't know the second part.Delete
My babies are 35 & 41 and the memories of snuggling and rocking them to sleep are so precious to me. Of my grandson, too. Enjoy that baby. They grow up so fast.
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Blessings, Gail - nice to visit with you again. Love your cross-stitch - I did a number of them when I was a young mom, too. I am into making my home a "sanctuary" - I love to have it smelling like good food when my husband arrives home at night - warm, inviting - in decor and tidiness.ReplyDelete
That is a wonderful thing to do, Kathryn. I used to do that, too. Now that we are retired, I am cooking all day long, so it always smells good I guess. You and I are kindred spirits.Delete
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Blessings to you and yours.
Hailing in from Friendship Friday and thought I'd stop by to say hello! :) Have a great weekend.ReplyDelete
Oh by the way Hailing in from Friendship Friday and I'm you latest follower. Nice to meet you.ReplyDelete
Welcome Marie! Nice to meet you, too.Delete
What a good reminder to take care of the gifts entrusted to us while keeping balance in life. Proverbs is one of my favorite books. Good words, Gail!ReplyDelete
Good Morning Gail, I agree with everything you have said. My daughters are grown and have left the nest, but when they were little, their toys used to be strewn around the front room, and that was ok, because it was their time, but when the evening arrived and it was time to go to bed, the toys were cleared away for the evening so that my husband and I could sit comfortably in the front room. As for housework, I keep my home clean, but not always as tidy as I should, but that is alright, because I don't want my home to look like a show home, I want it to be welcoming to my friends and family, which I am pleased to say it is.ReplyDelete
Best Wishes to you,