Say to wisdom, “You are my sister" and call understanding your kinswoman." (Proverb 7:4)
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Sunday, February 20, 2022
Boundaries for Women
Nancy Campbell posts are filled with abundant wisdom. This article is spot on, as I think about and do my best, to teach younger women. I pray you will read and share it.
REVOLTED AND GONE
by Nancy Campbell
(used by permission)
I am a freedom lover. In fact, I am a freedom fighter. However, I also believe in boundaries. True freedom is only found in the boundaries that God assigns for us. A train running on its tracks is free to go anywhere the tracks take it. However, if the train decides it doesn’t want the confinement of tracks and veers off, it would be its destruction.
God puts boundaries on nature. God has put limits on the seas and the oceans. Psalm 104:9 says: “Thou hast set a bound (for the waters) that they may not pass over.” Proverbs 8:29 says: “He gave to the sea his decree, that the waters should not pass his commandment . . . “
God gave the angels of Heaven their boundary. Jude 1:6 (GW) tells us: “They (the angels) were held in darkness, bound by eternal chains. These are the angels who didn’t keep their position of authority but abandoned their assigned place.”
God masterminded the holy estate of marriage, the most beautiful estate on earth when we live it according to God’s plans. But God has placed boundaries on marriage. When a couple are joined as one on their wedding day, they enter into the exclusivity of marriage. We don’t share our marriage with anyone else. Oh yes, we open our homes and lives to encompass people, but our marriage is sacred. We will never embark on a personal relationship with someone of the opposite sex apart from with our husband.
God has given to women a powerful domain over which to rule. God planned for women to be queen of their homes and be the continuers of godly generations revealing the likeness and image of God.
God does not intend us to enter the realm of the male domain. Of course, we can if we want, but it will be to our detriment. God’s blessings are poured out in the domain that He gives to us.
And our domain, mother, is a glorious domain. Did you read my article, LET’S GET BACK THE GLORY, in the current issue of Above Rubies?
I love David’s confession in Psalm 6:5, 6 (GW): Your boundary lines mark out pleasant (delightful) places for me. Indeed, my inheritance is something beautiful.”
I love the *CJB version: “Pleasant places were measured out for me; I am CONTENT with my heritage.” It is a beautiful thing when we are content within the boundaries that God assigns to us. In these boundary lines we have the greatest freedom because God is also the author of freedom. He wants us to live free.
The words of Jeremiah 5:22, 23 are challenging: “Fear ye not me? saith the LORD: will ye not tremble at my presence, which have placed the sand for the bound of the sea by a perpetual decree, that it cannot pass it: and though the waves thereof toss themselves, yet can they not prevail; though they roar, yet can they not pass over it? But this people hath a revolting and rebellious heart; they are revolted and gone.”
Wow, God uses the example of how even the oceans, although they roar and toss, cannot pass God’s boundary lines. And yet, unbelievably, His people do it. God mandated boundaries for His people Israel. He gave them laws and decrees, not to imprison them but to bless them, to make them healthy, and to make them His special and chosen people in all the world. But they didn’t want it. “THEY ARE REVOLTED AND GONE!”
This is often our testimony of many women in the church today. They don’t understand that God’s truths do not inhibit us. They set us free. But they don’t want freedom within their boundaries. They want their own kind of freedom. God mandated for women to be in the home. But where are they? Most homes in America are empty today. The mothers have REVOLTED AND GONE!
This passage continues in verse 25. “Your sins have withholden GOOD THINGS from you.” We miss out on the “GOOD THINGS” when we move away from the boundaries God has assigned for us.
Let’s embrace all that God has for us and live in the fullness of the blessings He longs for us.
Drawing you back to His glorious ways, Nancy Campbell
Painting by Jessica Zemsky
P.S. Oh help! I can imagine the reaction to some of my above statements. I must say that I know that most women today are brainwashed by our humanistic society. They have beautiful hearts, would never want to do anything to offend God, and think their lifestyle is absolutely normal because that is all they know. Most women today are ignorant of God’s Word and His plan for women and so they are ignorantly living their lives outside the home. Others are in very difficult financial situations and are forced, often against their will, to vacate the home. Feminism has been very successful in making it more difficult for women as they have lowered men’s wages and advocated for their so-called women’s rights.
I understand the many reasons, dear mothers, but at the same time, as an older mother, I must be faithful to teach what God says from His Word. I know that our society is so far away from God’s original intention that it’s a long road back. To some it even looks impossible. But ultimate revival is for us to turn back. We cannot live under the fount of His full blessings unless we live in the boundary lines He has designated for us.
* CJB is the Complete Jewish Bible, which I use and highly recommend. I especially like the CJB Study Bible.
Nancy Campbell's website is a gold mine of wisdom and encouragement: ABOVE RUBIES.
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Monday, December 7, 2020
Calling All "Messy Moms"
Calling ALL “Messy Moms!”
Perfect Parenting need NOT apply!!!!
I am honored to be a guest speaker at this FREE online event and
YOU are invited.
Join me at this event on
Saturday, December 12:
Messy Mom's Schedule For Success:
How To Maximize Life Through Easy Organization, Simple Habits, and Creative Routines Live Stream Virtual Event!
Registration is required. Visit the following link for more info and to register:
https://www.messymomssuccess.com/
I'll be speaking in the afternoon, and giving away a free copy of my book, 8 Days of Hanukkah and Christmas, too.
Be sure to share this with your friends!
Hope to see y'all there.
Friday, August 7, 2015
Thankful Thursday -There's No Place Like Home
Don't you think a woman's home is a reflection of her heart? I love just being at home because it's a place of peace, and this sign (another thrift store find) is important to me. I prize peace as one of the greatest gifts I've received from G-d.
The sign is a reminder to always say things in a loving, kind, and soft-spoken way.
Here are a few other things in my home that reflect my heart.
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The sign says "ALL IS WELL" and the key is to remind me that Yeshua has given me the keys to the Kingdom. |
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This bird cage came from Dayspring, and it has brought me so much JOY ! ! ! I love clipping things to it that bring me delight. |
You can download it (in different colors) at this link:
http://thegraphicsfairy.com/free-hand-sketched-wreath-printable/
Thankful Thursday is my weekly blog discipline to pause and be thankful for all of the wonderful things in my life. What are you thankful for this week?
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Wednesday, February 5, 2014
Wisdom Wednesday #11 - Idleness
As promised, this week, we'll focus on the second part of this verse from Proverbs 31:
צ 27 She watches how things go in her house,
not eating the bread of idleness.
When I think of all the work women had to do in Bible times, I wonder how they would ever have time to be idle, don't you?
The internet is my greatest time waster. I liken it to browsing in a library, which is one of my favorite things to do. I can sit down to look up a phone number, and a couple of hours later I'm still there, learning about travel to Great Britain or pinning house projects and recipes on Pinterest. The odd thing about it is, it feels like I'm busy. I'm not. I'm being idle. Wasting time.
With all the many things I do, and have to keep track of, I've found it helpful to keep a list like this on a clipboard. It really helps me stay organized and focused.
On the back, I have a column for "To Buy" and "House Projects" - with lots of space to write notes to myself. I'm a list-maker, and love crossing things off.
I also use the Six Most Important Things list idea, which I learned from Mary Kay Ash. Every day, I make a list of those things to do, and I categorize them by importance or urgency. Then, I start with number one and work my way down. If I don't finish, I add it to tomorrow's list. This really works well for me.
These are all in addition to my daily routine of house maintenance, cooking three meals a day, and laundry. I've found it really helpful to just do a little bit every day, rather than a full day of housecleaning.
If I finish everything on my list, then I can enjoy some time on Pinterest without guilt.
One of my all-time favorite books is Disciplines of the Beautiful Woman by Ann Ortlund. She taught me a great deal about discipline and organization. I highly recommend every woman read it.
I'd love to know what helps you stay organized and focused.
Shavua Tov! (Have a good week)
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I'm sharing this post with:
Spiritual Sundays
Let's Get Social Sunday
Modest Mom Monday Link-up
A Wise Woman BuildsWhole Hearted Wednesday
Hearts for Home
Favorite Things
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Wednesday, January 29, 2014
Wisdom Wednesday #10 - Happy Homekeeping
Our study of Proverbs 31 today brings us to:
צ 27 She watches how things go in her house,
The first part of this verse wraps up what has been said in the verses before. It is saying not to neglect your home.
I haven't always been a good housekeeper. As a matter of fact, my house was a mess until I learned to be a Proverbs 31 woman. Years ago when I started to apply this scripture, I cross-stitched this verse as a reminder to put it into practice:
It hangs over my stove now, and has hung on the wall of my kitchen in every home since the 1970's. Each time I see it I'm reminded of my priorities.
Because it is from the Holy Scriptures, it reminds me that this is what ADONAI wants me to do as a home-keeper.
The sign reminds me to keep my home clean and neat, and to take care of what G-d has given me. I don't want to become so busy with outside pursuits that I neglect my home duties of cleaning, laundry, and preparing healthy meals.
I'm also reminded to make our home a place of peace above everything else. I want to keep a sweet spirit there at all times, and to keep a welcoming atmosphere prepared for anyone who visits. If things become cluttered, I feel stressed, so I like to keep things picked up and clean. By doing this, I'm not afraid of drop-in visitors, and can open my door without worry.
When my children were growing up, I also had two other sayings framed on my wall that kept me focused on my priorities. The first is:
My house is clean enough to be healthy
And dirty enough to be happy
I don't want to be so focused on cleaning that I become obsessed with it. There is a balance, and I have found it, through trial and error.
The second saying is:
Cleaning and dusting can wait till tomorrow
Cause children grow up,
we learn to our sorrow
While cleaning is important, my family members come before that. If something comes up that involves one of them, the cleaning can wait.
I believe a woman's home is a reflection of her heart. When I walk into someone's home, I can tell a great deal by the atmosphere there, including the decorations as well as her demeanor. I should qualify this with the statement that children's toys in the living room are not considered clutter and messiness in my book. And, of course, we all have times that things aren't as clean and nice as we'd like. Something is wrong, though, if your life is like that all the time....if you live in a mess day in and day out, or if you can't invite people in because you'd be embarassed because your house looks like a dump all the time.
Proverbs 31 can move you out of a stressful life of mess. Ask him to help you apply this passage to your life. It worked for me, and I know it will work for you.
You don't have the finest furniture or most expensive decorations to have a pretty and welcoming home. I think almost everything in my home has been bought at a yard sale or a thrift shop, but it is pretty to me and I think it reflects a heart that loves Hashem and people.
There is a second part of this verse (about idleness), and we will talk about that next week.
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I saw a funny thing on Facebook today:
I love looking at snow
on Facebook
from Florida
Most of the country is dealing with cold, snowy weather. Even north Florida is expecting snow today. So, stay warm and safe, and don't hate me because I live in sunny central Florida. :)
I'm sharing this post with:
Spiritual Sundays
Let's Get Social Sunday
Modest Mom Monday Link-up
A Wise Woman BuildsWhole Hearted Wednesday
Hearts for Home
Favorite Things
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Wednesday, November 6, 2013
Wisdom Wednesdays
Today, will be the first installment in my new series Wisdom Wednesdays. As promised last week, this post will be about Proverbs 31.
As a young woman, I was introduced to this chapter of Proverbs during a workshop at my church. I still remember sitting in that room, listening to an older woman teach us younger women how to be good wives, mothers, and homemakers. Miss Bernice inspired me to make this my model for success. I am thankful for her teaching, as well as her example.
Now that I am an older woman myself, I aspire to be an example to the younger women my life touches. I have learned much wisdom since I began my journey and I hope some of what I've learned will be an inspiration to you, dear Gail-Friends.
As an introduction, this chapter was written by Lemuel's (Solomon) mother. He was the king, and she wrote these words to disciple him. In verse two, the Hebrew says:
"What is it, my son? And what is it, O son of my womb?
And what is it, O son of my vows?"
The implication of her statement is:
"I raised you, I bore you, and loved you so much
that all my vows were dedicated to you."
If you have children, you know the depth of that statement. This mother has her son's best interest at heart, and we are to do the same with our children. Like Lemuel's mother, the focus of my life, for the most part, has been on and for my children.
I longed to be a mother from the time I was five years old. When I married, I prayed for children for four years before I bore my first child. I had a miscarriage before she was conceived. Then I prayed another six years for my second, and last, one. I wanted more children, but it was not to be. Becoming a mother was a dream come true for me. Becoming a grandmother was another dream realized. Both taught me a whole new level of love, and wisdom.
Since the day I bore my first child, there has not been one day I have not thought about my children. I was a stay-at-home mom and only worked outside the home part time for twenty-seven years. I don't regret those years. My philosophy was, and is now, that there will be plenty of time to develop a career once children are gone from the home.
Lemuel's mother is counseling him according to the Scriptures. This is what we are to do with our children. We are to teach them G-d's holy ways, not the ways of the world or some denomination or church. If their teachings do not line up with Scripture, we are sinning against them and against G-d by remaining in that place.
Is it your heart's desire to be a good mother, wife, and homemaker? If so, G-d will hear that vow, and He will help you keep it. He gave us this chapter, and many others to guide us as women, whether we are single or married.
My heart is always toward my home, husband and children. I hope some of the things I've learned along the way will help and inspire you, whether you are single or married. I hope you'll come back next week to learn more about this chapter, especially the Hebrew perspective and insights I will share. Some of them might surprise you.
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Thursday, October 31, 2013
31 Days of His Wisdom - Day 31 - A Virtuous Woman
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Our dear friend, Barbara, who makes the challah for us each Sabbath |
My favorite chapter of Proverbs ends this 31-day series. Proverbs 31 describes a capable wife. There is so much in this chapter, but this part is my focus for today:
ע 25 Clothed with strength and dignity,
she can laugh at the days to come.
פ 26When she opens her mouth, she speaks wisely;
on her tongue is loving instruction.
צ 27 She watches how things go in her house,
not eating the bread of idleness.
she can laugh at the days to come.
פ 26When she opens her mouth, she speaks wisely;
on her tongue is loving instruction.
צ 27 She watches how things go in her house,
not eating the bread of idleness.
ק 28 Her children arise; they make her happy;
her husband too, as he praises her:
ר 29 “Many women have done wonderful things,
but you surpass them all!”
her husband too, as he praises her:
ר 29 “Many women have done wonderful things,
but you surpass them all!”
ש 30 Charm can lie, beauty can vanish,
but a woman who fears Adonai should be praised.
ת 31 Give her a share in what she produces;
let her works speak her praises at the city gates.
As a young woman in my twenties, I attended a workshop about this chapter. All the things a wife should do for her home, husband, children, and community seemed overwhelming at first, but since that day, I have aspired to become this kind of woman.
A year ago, I lost a dear friend, who I think was the epitomy of the Proverbs 31 woman. I still can't think of her without crying. She was a joy and an inspiration to everyone who knew her. We were kindred spirits in the desire of our hearts. This is her quote: "I am very focused... on my home and family...children and grandchildren. The desire of my heart is multi-generational faithfulness to G-d, that they would know Him and walk in His ways." ~clb. The words on her grave are her legacy:
Every morning when I wake up, my husband says, "Good morning, gorgeous!" I love that he thinks I'm beautiful, but as verse thirty says, "beauty can vanish". I know that the most important thing is to fear ADONAI (obey Him). My prayer is that I would be remembered, not for my beauty, but for my life lived for His glory. Like my friend, Cheryl, I also pray for future generations to follow Him.
If you've never read this chapter, I pray you will study it verse by verse and think about whether or not you are doing what the verse describes.
Next week, in my Wisdom Wednesday feature, I will do a more in-depth explanation of how the chapter can guide us in today's world.
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Quotations are from The Complete Jewish Bible
Each time I read through Proverbs, something different jumps out at me. This is ADONAI quickening His Word to my heart.
As I go through this month of studying Proverbs, I hope you'll join me and read the chapter, too. I'll share what stands out to me for that day.
I'd love for you to share something He shows you through the day's reading.
I'll be linking these posts to the 31 Days event at The Nester
This 31 day series will focus on the things I learned from Proverbs, as well as some things from Torah study, and will add in a sprinkling of what I've learned from Judaism.
I will be posting daily through October 31. To read the posts, just go to the Labels section on the left, and click on "31 Days of His Wisdom".
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I'm sharing this post with:
Spiritual Sundays
Thought Provoking Thursday
Hearts for Home
Favorite Things
Faith Filled Friday
but a woman who fears Adonai should be praised.
ת 31 Give her a share in what she produces;
let her works speak her praises at the city gates.
As a young woman in my twenties, I attended a workshop about this chapter. All the things a wife should do for her home, husband, children, and community seemed overwhelming at first, but since that day, I have aspired to become this kind of woman.
A year ago, I lost a dear friend, who I think was the epitomy of the Proverbs 31 woman. I still can't think of her without crying. She was a joy and an inspiration to everyone who knew her. We were kindred spirits in the desire of our hearts. This is her quote: "I am very focused... on my home and family...children and grandchildren. The desire of my heart is multi-generational faithfulness to G-d, that they would know Him and walk in His ways." ~clb. The words on her grave are her legacy:
Every morning when I wake up, my husband says, "Good morning, gorgeous!" I love that he thinks I'm beautiful, but as verse thirty says, "beauty can vanish". I know that the most important thing is to fear ADONAI (obey Him). My prayer is that I would be remembered, not for my beauty, but for my life lived for His glory. Like my friend, Cheryl, I also pray for future generations to follow Him.
If you've never read this chapter, I pray you will study it verse by verse and think about whether or not you are doing what the verse describes.
Next week, in my Wisdom Wednesday feature, I will do a more in-depth explanation of how the chapter can guide us in today's world.
^^^^^
Quotations are from The Complete Jewish Bible
Each time I read through Proverbs, something different jumps out at me. This is ADONAI quickening His Word to my heart.
As I go through this month of studying Proverbs, I hope you'll join me and read the chapter, too. I'll share what stands out to me for that day.
I'd love for you to share something He shows you through the day's reading.
I'll be linking these posts to the 31 Days event at The Nester
This 31 day series will focus on the things I learned from Proverbs, as well as some things from Torah study, and will add in a sprinkling of what I've learned from Judaism.
I will be posting daily through October 31. To read the posts, just go to the Labels section on the left, and click on "31 Days of His Wisdom".
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I'm sharing this post with:
Spiritual Sundays
Let's Get Social Sunday
A Wise Woman BuildsThought Provoking Thursday
Hearts for Home
Favorite Things
Faith Filled Friday
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